My sister used to be my best friend, until she took back her idiot of a boyfriend. She is up his ass 24/7. He is the type that has nothing to do with his kid if he is not with her. Well after years of this immature bullshit, back and forth. People are sick of it. Nobody likes him. Not because of how he acts pre se but because of the constant bitching she used to do about him. Now that they have been on again for 5 months she expects all to be forgotten. Sorry it does not work that way.
So here is what happened, I was having my child's 11th birthday, she comes in with him and expects everyone to joke around and be so thrilled to see him. Nobody really is. She gets all mad and acts like she is sick and leaves.
Next day, she calls and copes an attitude. Boo Hoo nobody will talk to her boyfriend at the party. I got upset and let her go. I had days to think about that day, and I am still infuriated. She tried to turn my daughter's party into something about her? Are you kidding me? Maybe you should stop crying about your allergies and join the party. She was there 20 minutes, I had guest arriving, and I was setting up. I did not have time to worry about her feelings. This was about my daughter, it was her day. It's just like my sister to try to make everything about her. She finds hurt feelings were there are none to be had.
I can think of three times her boyfriend sat in the car and did not come in to visit. I can think of numerous other times I tried to be nice to him. I cannot be the only person trying here and I am tired of it. She needs some time to think about things and so do I. I need to decide if she is worth the trouble and drama to keep around. I am not doing this three times a year with her. She is going to have to grow up or stay away. I am doing too many things in my life to worry about her feelings every second. She wants involved then she needs to put her big panties on and talk to people. I am done with it. I seriously am.
